Dive into my creative process behind my new song "The Way You Make Me Pay," where a couple wayward guitar strums evolved into a a wild musical journey of love's complexities.
This song, characterized by its dark yet rebellious tones, combines simple melodies with introspective lyrics to challenge the traditional rules of relationships.
Through a blend of acoustic and electronic elements, it invites listeners to reconsider what keeps us bound to others, even in the face of challenges. Join us as we unravel the layers of this compelling track, crafted to resonate with anyone who's ever questioned the conventional norms of love and connection.
"Over The Line" is the latest in Hill's monthly single releases, where he flexes his storytelling chops across various Americana styles. This particular track channels The Big Lebowski's wandering anti-hero to describe feeling down and out, grasping at redemption to "get back" from crossing too many lines. For fans of the film and gritty Americana tunes alike, it makes for a moody, memorable listen.
We often get caught in the "best practices bottleneck" - seeking advice from experts that doesn't apply to our unique business. This leads to analysis paralysis rather than action. The truth is you know yourself best. Instead of following someone else's best practices, just start doing and aim to continuously improve. Meet your audience where they are, build trust in the marketplace, and don't get hung up trying to check every box. Focus on what will drive real growth for your specific business.
As a VP of Marketing, I’ve averaged over 100 emails a day and easily sent 30-50. These days, my clients are still using email but have also added Slack, WhatsApp, Text/SMS, and other messaging services. They are also fairly prolific on the major social media platforms (Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Instagram, etc.).
But how much communication is enough? How often should we respond, post, broadcast, or interact with our followers and social contacts? Who sets the expectation for how these technologies are used and their expected response time?
Why is context setting important for effective meetings? Even in a one-to-one conversation, context-setting is vital and often helpful to grounding the conversation and determining the agenda of what needs to be discussed. In an effort to help you have better meetings, here is a quick checklist to set the context and clarify the reason you are meeting: State what is the meeting about. Propose why is it important now and any recent developments. Define what you are trying to accomplish in this meeting. (Hint: the big opportunity — lean in folks! This is important.) Optional: If time allows, you might open the floor to questions before you begin. This can usually be done in less than one minute (with a few more minutes for questions).
Marketing 101 courses typically talk about the “4 Ps” of marketing: Product, Price, Promotion, and Place. While these are still important, I find that using 8 Ps is more nuanced and helpful when planning a product launch or new campaign. These 8 Ps help marketers find a fresh perspective and uncover new opportunities for their marketing mix. Take some time to think over each “P” below with my starter questions to see how you and your team might improve your next go-to-market plan, product launch or sales campaign. Product (or service): What you’re selling - How might our product or service promote itself? Price: The value exchange - What does our price say about our product/service in terms of value or accessibility? Promotion: How products are pushed or placed into the market - Where do our customers live? Partnerships: Other audiences and companies that want to help you market your product - Which brands, companies, or key people would be a beneficial partnership for our product launch?
This year marks a creative rebirth for me through embracing songwriting and overcoming the doubts holding me back. I discovered my voice by leaning into grief rather than running from it, finding catharsis in lyrics and melodies. The experience awakened a drive to help others push past their inner critics to unlock their full potential.
If aspects of my journey resonate with you, I encourage you to take that first step towards self-expression today in whatever form calls to you. Sign up for my newsletter to stay updated on new song releases, shows, and to receive tips on nurturing creativity. If you’re feeling stuck, apply for coaching – let’s have an honest conversation about what success means for you and build a plan to get there. Your story is still being written. The most magical part lies ahead.
I hope my songs and message stir you to reflect on what wants to emerge uniquely through you next year. Our world needs your full voice. Let this be the year you share it unapologetically.
Do you know what makes your heart sing? What lights you up? What makes your heart sing? Or as I like to say, what gives you goosebumps?
I think it’s really important to listen to your heart and body as they tell you how you find your best joy.
Passing along a little advice I heard from Andrew Huberman on his great Andrew Huberman Lab podcast.
He says simply, "Don't wait for the diagnosis" when talking to his friend Dr. Linden who was recently diagnosed with a rare heart cancer.
And so, I made this video about his off the cuff remark as it really struck me with how punchy and to the point it was. I hope we all live without waiting for the diagnosis and appreciated the wake up call.
Thanks #drhuberman for all you do including the off the cuff remarks.
LINK: The emotional wrap up of this episode including the Don't wait for the Diagnosis comment. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29n0WG317tM
Recently, I’ve been interviewed on a couple of podcasts to promote my book and talk about why I coach.
Here's a fun and historic piece of music I performed on with Michael Shrieve (The original drummer for Santana who played at Woodstock ‘69)
I am so proud to have played at this event and am thrilled it ended up being something that Michael released.
I even helped composed few of the drum set grooves along with Michael and another Seattle drummer named Conrad Ormsby.
In my book "Doubt Riding Shotgun," I reference an inspiring story from the remarkable Irish poet, David Whyte. He once recounted an interaction with his aunt where she scoffed at his decision to become a poet. She said, "Well, you certainly must think highly of yourself!" And without hesitation, David replied, "In fact, I do! And so should you!"
This story has resonated deeply with many readers, so I thought I'd make a video reminding us all of the importance of embracing our worth and recognizing the unique qualities that make us special.
There is not book that can tell you the best coaching question to ask. Instead, I use my gut. My goal is to ask a great coaching questions to help the client learn what's the story behind the way the client is presenting what they are discussing? I want to help the client learn about their own story.
Self-doubt (aka as our inner critic) is trying to protect us. I like to imagine that doubt sees the rumble strips on the freeway and is warning us to stay in our lane. Once we tell doubt we hear the warning, we can often move on along our intended path.
Loving yourself is a good thing and allows for mysterious things to come to light. Take time to relax and enjoy this one precious life to see what’s inside.
Doubt Riding Shotgun will be released in early 2023 as an ebook and print version shortly thereafter.
This book works with a familiar metaphor to help us realize that Doubt never goes away entirely... and that's OK. It's about how we come to know and work with our unique Doubt passenger that matters. Doubt doesn't get to have the final say.
I've done just about everything wrong in creating this book, and that is also the point. You see, I too have my own clever, shapeshifting, and sneaky Doubt passenger.
Process goals are a different way of thinking about working on your business. Instead of having “S.M.A.R.T.” goals that are specific measurable, attainable, , relevant, and time-bound, process goals help us work with harder to predict paths. If we are in-process, we are making progress. Refining the process is the goal.
What can we learn from our Shoulds?
Noticing our Shoulds for deeper learning
Learning from our Shoulds
What can we Learn from our “Shoulds"?
At the time of this writing, I’m nearly done with their live course: Awaken & Celebrate Your Sacred Voice and I have to attest that it’s been transformational. I’m singing daily and exploring sounds with my voice that I never thought possible. It’s deeply personal work and as the course suggests: Sacred. We speak al, the time, but do we really hear ourselves? Do we play with new sounds, pitches or tones? Do we only use our throat or can we feel our whole body resonate with our voice?
Recently I've made a slight upgrade to my old fashioned paper todo list and I thought I'd share as a way of capturing this moment in time and to learn more from all you brilliant people that I'm connected to here.
I call it a “meaningful todo list”
This new workflow is really helping reduce my distractibility. Here are some links to a template and a bit of background on how I use this list.
I want you to forget what you might believe about your voice and give yourself permission to explore.
Instead of judging yourself or your voice, I want to invite your 5-year-old self to do a little exploring by making up your own song (perhaps even a mantra).
By the way: You might also notice that your self-critical voice about your singing is similar to other limiting voices that you hear in other areas of your life.
For this exercise, I want you to explore soothing yourself with a song or at least some vocal sounds
As a culture, we don’t celebrate rest. Even when we go on vacation, it is often about the doing. What if we intentionally embraced rest for body, mind, and soul. Each might need different types of resting practices, but each aspect helps the rest. Let’s put the REST into restoration.
There are more than a million reasons why you should never do anything.
If you listen to reason and take stock in what’s at risk, it’s better to just binge-watch the latest Netflix series and go to bed early.
But what if we listen to our dream, instead of our doubt?
Recently, I discovered FocusMate and my productivity really went through the roof. I know I sound like an advertisement, but hear me out, as I think this is a pretty interesting way to work from a coaching/psychological perspective. Here are my ideas.
I launched DaveHillJr.com in January 2021 to better reflect my identity as a coach. Here’s the backstory.
Saving a few bucks by doing a business task yourself is often a more expensive path overall and can create more drag on your own emotional wellbeing. Here’s how to calculate your “hourly rate” and determine whether a task is worth your time.
Limiting beliefs are self-imposed borders that we no longer test or question, often because of past negative experiences. Here’s how to uncover your own limiting beliefs and unlearn your “learned helplessness.”
When applied properly, empathy shows others that you care about them as people and can see beyond any immediate business issues. Here’s what you need to know about developing empathy as a manager.
Practicing mindfulness can help us be more present and in our bodies. It will help make you a better manager, colleague, and even a better human.
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Check out my book: Doubt Riding Shotgun to learn a more holistic way of working with your self-doubt, imposter syndrome, and inner critic.
Sometimes a failed meditation is a successful nap.
I’m urging you not to feel guilty and to instead just drop into what’s needed for you in this moment. Perhaps after a little rest, you’ll feel like a more dignified meditation later.
A rested mind is a beautiful thing.